1. Other peoples’ expectations for you. At the end of the day, it’s your life – not theirs- so just be yourself, and set your own personal goals.
  2. What other people say and do. It’s not up to us to control other people, or to change how they act, or to influence their decisions.
  3. Aiming for perfection. It’s unrealistic to aim for perfection. You’ll just be disappointed and discouraged all the time.
  4. Getting it wrong. We all make mistakes in our journey through life. That’s part of learning. It’s normal and human.
  5. Being right. This is highly over-rated and can cause a lot of stress. If you’re confident and real you don’t need to prove you’re right.

6.Life being out of control. At the end of the day, there’s not much we can control – except our own reactions and our attitudes to life. So change what you can change – and then relax and enjoy life.

Fly unlimited


  1. Recently a friend gave me a piece of advice: When people tell us something, they will be passing on emotion and information. More often than not the emotion is not helpful in helping us, but the information can provide us with a lot.

    It’s difficult to separate this information from the emotion, but is very worthwhile in helping us live well.

    Something I’ve often heard, attributed to Wayne Dyer, “When you have the choice between being right and being kind, choose kind.” This is something that has helped me immensely in my life over the past three years.

    Thank you for sharing these useful points.

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