STOP FORCING YOURSELF INTO PEOPLE THAT DOESN’T WANT YOU

Don’t beat yourself up over it and use it to grow stronger and become. It is not those who stand with you at your best but the one who stand with you at your worst, stop spending time to force into people that don’t regard you as anything, life is too short to spend time with those who sock happiness out of you, never force yourself into a relationship or someone who continually overlook your worth, they castigate everything you do to bring you down so that they stand taller than you. They like to use you and have their way.

You can use the pain of rejection to grow stronger and become hero. Don’t suppress the pain, acknowledge it. This is the key to dealing with your discomfort in a healthy manner. Trying to minimize the pain by telling yourself it was “no big deal” only prolongs it. Use it as a time to focus on a new creative project or develop some new transferable skills that will make you more attractive. Rejection doesn’t have to mean that youaren’t good enough; it often just means the other person is myopic of the champion in you and what you have to offer.

Stop being someone who you are not because you want to maintain a relationship or friendship. To live in false humility is to torment who you are. Run away from those who have only word of mouth without character. Don’t change so that people will like you. Be yourself, so that true people will love the real you.

You cannot start the next chapter of your life if you keep rereading the past one. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the present.

Stop been scared of mistake or failure. Doing something and get it wrong is more productive than doing nothing, “positive little is far better than negative everything. Every success have train of failure behind it and every failure is leading to word success, you will end up regretting things you did not do far more than the things you did.

Stop getting into the wrong relationship for the wrong reasons. Relationship must be chosen wisely. It is better to be alone than to be with the bad company, especially those who claim to be an angel but they are dangerous brethren. There is no need to rush. If something is meant to be it will happen at the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason.

Don’t reject the new relationship just because the old one didn’t work. In life, you realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you, but the most important is that some will bring out the best in you. Have in mind that every hero always has enemies and every hero must make a choice.

Character
Good character is like a golden necklace. You become prettier when you wear it by “Divine-Royalty”

Bad character is like a flat tire, you cannot move until you change it. Author Unknown

Your Character is the first chapter in the book of Wisdom”. Ifeanyi Eze

Anointing may glorify you but character may bring you down. Character in life is what makes people believe in you and is essential both for individual success and for our society to function successfully. You are a history, writer your story well.

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17 comments

  1. Such a good post with sound advice how many will sit idly by waiting for their life to begin and not make the effort to take the first step. There is more than enough wolves in sheep clothing out there waiting to act like they want to help you or be friendly, but by Gods grace we are kept protected. Blessings.
    Julia

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