The moment you recognize that you are wonderful made and there is assignment you are here on earth to fulfill which no one else could be able to do except you, that will be the begging of your wisdom and that makes you a special person

Too often, we punish ourselves for past mistakes, as if we could somehow “make up” the wrong that we’ve done. We walk through each day feeling less-than. We call ourselves losers or unqualified! We live chained to our past, holding on to hurts and grudges. And though no one else may know about our secret pain, the negative emotions we feel gnaw away at our joy and satisfaction in life. Don’t hold on to guilt. You don’t need to justify your past actions or try to prove yourself. Letting go of the past means burying it and giving up your right to engage in self-condemnation. Forgiveness is a choice, but also a process. It’s choosing to stop hating yourself and cutting yourself down, but instead, seeing yourself as a valuable human being. Let’s see this points

1. Blaming your problems on your past. Although the past affects us, it need not define us. We can choose, decide and act – and take control of our lives. Don’t let your past heartaches and pain affect who you become.

2. Not living in the moment. Always wishing you were somewhere else.

3. Running away from problems. It’s pointless to bury your head in the sand and pretend that things are fine when you’re dealing with a problem. Face reality, take action and work to turn things round.

4. Being ungrateful. Being thankful sets you free in your heart and mind. It inspires all that’s good and, also, oils relationships. But an ungrateful person will wear others down. It destroys your spirit, and it saps your energy.

5. Being angry and bitter. Refusing to forgive and bearing grudges against others will slowly poison our personality. It’s much better to release them and to focus, instead, on living a happy and fulfilling life. When you choose to forgive those who have hurt you, you take away their power.

6. Letting your expectations rule your life. Life rarely goes smoothly and according to plan – and people disappoint us and let us down. Accepting this is normal takes some tension out of life.

7. Disrespecting yourself and others. Every single person deserves respect, and every single person is fighting their own battle. So focus on being kind, understanding and forgiving.

8. Neglecting important relationship. A relationship that’s built on unconditional love – where a person accepts us for who and what we are – is truly something special that is worth fighting for. The heart that love is ever young

9. Loving people who are bad for us. Not everyone you meet is going to build into your life. Beware of those who who’ll use you, or who want to bring you down, who only want to hurt you, or destroy your confidence.

10. Never taking risks. If you always play it safe, you’ll find you end up going nowhere. You must be willing to take risks or you’ll regret it later on.

Fly unlimited


  1. No human being is perfect, and we are all subjected to mistakes as well as success. It is all part and parcel of life and this post unify it and put life in it’s proper perspective and appropriate order teachers us to think objectively about the subjectivity of life. This is a priceless post periodt!!!

    Liked by 4 people

  2. A wealth of good sound advice here for a less complicated life! Gotta say number nine IS A MUST for all of us to learn as there are toxic people out there waiting to ruin the good God placed you here to accomplish. Makes me think of the scripture “satan is as a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour”. Loved this writing as always,thank you for honing your talent,it is helping many.Blessings .

    Liked by 2 people

  3. Amen! These words helped me make sense of some thoughts that were floating around in my head today. Thank you for sharing them.

    Happy New year, and I hope 2021 treats you well as we venture further into it!

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s