“The reason for all this jealous ,mockery and hatred is because, they are intimidated by what you got”_”Divine-Royalty”
Viruses make us sick by killing cells or disrupting cell function. Our bodies often respond with fever (so is hate) Hate incidents and crime acts of violence or hostility directed at people because of who they are or who someone thinks they are.
Gossip is, bearing bad news behind someone’s back out of a bad hearted or jealousy. People don’t hate you unless they are jealous of you in some way. Feeling resentment against someone because of that person’s rivalry, success, great-mind or advantages can’t build you, instead will destroy you. Gossip is a serious problem. It is a problem in our home, a problem in the business, a problem in the social media and workplace, a problem where eagles are gathering and in our world. These pose potential harm where ever they are.
Since the church involves our spiritual life in addition to our natural one, they are more harmful when operating in the church. Have you ever heard that someone was talking about you, and not in a very positive way? Or your secrets has become a public news even to those who doesn’t deserve to know about it, I will bet it, you did not feel good or serve to draw you closer to that person or add warmth to your relationship. Gossip never builds up another person or serves to strengthen a relationship. In fact, it is one way to almost certainly destroy or severely strain one. I must be sincere with you, it’s a killer of energy.
I just hook up with new friends and with my interaction with them I discovered that many peoples enthusiasm is down because of energy suckers called gossip. There are many who supposed to have placed a mark to this generation, their impacts would have been speaking for them but they are afraid of what people will say about them and they settle in ordinary. (But that is madness) Whether you are desperate, minimum or cold, you can never avoid people gossiping about you. People must talk about you. But do not panic about those who seek after your information pretending to be your friends, but they are jealous lovers; they are exposing what they lack, that they are not trustworthy. If you doubt me, see these 3 tips.
- Gossip kills your reputation. It sows dis-trust among your team, and friends. When someone that trusts you hears or knows that you tearing someone else down, even when painted with a false sense of care for that individual, it causes others to be on their guide. And wonder what you may be saying about them behind their back too.
- It destroys your integrity. And integrity is who you are. In ministry, with friends or team, your integrity is more valuable than gold. The definition of integrity per dictionary.com is the quality of being honest and fair; the state of being complete or whole. Talking about another person that is not present or in a negative manner brings question upon your character. Your character is what defines you.
- Depending on your role in an organization, your age or perceived authority, what you say on others can carry a lot of weight. When you gossip about a person it can have lasting and unrepeatable repercussions. I have seen situations where gossip has destroyed careers, ministries and families. What you say against someone in social media can be one; you have to acquire speaking skills. Think about what it look like before you enter into it. If you value open and trusting relationships;
But courage! Nelson Mandela was once called a terrorist, but today regarded as one of the best leader in world. Of course, success doesn’t have to mean making money; it can mean whatever you want it to mean. We need your contribution, your art, your gift to the world. That’s what is important without minding those who are not busy in their own God given assignment, only to gossip around. Human beings are terrible at recognizing genius when it’s in front of them. It often takes us years to ignore the best sellers and catch on to true brilliance.
Moreover; Christ in you that cannot be limited will explore as truth cannot be buried. They may think that they have succeed in crucifying you with their poisonous mouth, and sword of their critics; without knowing that by so doing, they are announcing you for future plans of God. Nothing is permanent in this life; as after crucifixion comes resurrection. Change must surely bring every negative pronouncement and damages to renovation. And He who was dead; will be alive; while the rejected will be accepted;
Don’t keep those with negative energy as friends. Negative energy makes you do negative things. Without going too deep into physics, I just want you to know that everything is energy. Our thoughts, emotions, our deeds; everything you can think of could create energy or is created out of energy. So when you have negative people in your life, you take in their energy. Little by little, you can lose yourself in it. You start thinking and acting more negatively without even realizing it. The reason behind this is that you receive the energy, add something to it, and it begins to flow from you into your life. You become more like them and less like your true self. In fact, you might even forget who you are.
Choose good people in your life and be a good steward of your energy. Be an energy employment and progenitor, Don’t be an energy sucker, Wisdom is profitable to direct!